wonder if that PM came to gunnar before or after i gave you a negative review?
It’s quite possible he’s referring to a message in the past that I do not recall as I’ve had numerous conversations with Rusty. I like his honesty and his perspectives on many things and enjoy corresponding on stuff outside of the page itself. He has some similar views as myself when it comes to matters of art and aesthetics. But mostly I appreciate him as a very genuine seeming person with a good heart.
I wouldn’t typically ever discuss anyone’s PM’s or mine, but since they were brought up by both of you and Rusty may be inadvertently selling himself short I think I can break protocol for a moment.
Regarding the topic of Grumpy as discussed between Rusty and Gunnar, it was not even Rusty that brought it up. I actually contacted HIM. Following Grumpy’s review of Rusty’s musical offering I reached out to Rusty. I thought Grumpy’s reviews were a bit blunt and dismissed the aspect that the particular style of music that Rusty was working on may not be something that Grumpy is familiar with or can connect to, and I didn’t want to see Rusty get discouraged by the less-than-stellar feedback he’d received.
I told him not to take the criticisms to heart and to keep things in perspective. Far from using my letter as a chance to springboard into any slam against Grumpy or personal critique of the guy, however, Rusty merely acknowledged that the music wasn’t for everyone and that not everyone reviews things in the same manner. He said nothing critical or negative of Grumpy at this time.
I love the Smurf. He’s a good friend and a solid dude. Anyone lucky enough to meet him outside the board may likely be surprised to find an easy-going dude who’s easy to hang out with, eager to share what he has with whomever is interested. He’s passionately opinionated about stuff like politics, religion, and whatnot and I can tell you that on such matters he and I differ or disagree vastly, but it doesn’t come up and doesn’t ruin a good time. Grumpy, like me, has a persona online and a persona in person. To think that words that someone throws on a screen (especially when someone may just love a good online throw down) represents the be all end all of that person’s existence would be silly.
That being said, online Grumpy is the only Grumpy that many people know. Grumpy knows that people may judge him accordingly and he’s fine with that.
We’re all responsible for our own portrayed images on the board. When we feel we are unhappy with how we are coming across or how we are responding we can change that.
Anyway, I don’t really give a rat’s ass whether these two wanna menstruate on each other or measure each others’ pee pees. They’re both cool cats in my book and it doesn’t really matter whether they like each other (or whether anyone else likes them) or not. I just felt like weighing in since I heard my name referenced.
Cheers, Fags.