not to dog on you but it doesn’t really matter how you conduct yourself cause you’re an attractive cat, so girls are already attracted to you, then when you hit them with your quirkyness/down to earthness then you’re an even better catch!
Good looking people, they got no spine, no character, because they’re so used to having doors opened for them or most people sucking up to them
This is true in a way.
Good looking people generally seem to exude confidence and social smarts but have an almost warped sense of reality. They are the ones who will tell you to ‘be yourself’ or that ‘looks don’t matter…it’s what inside that counts’ because they’ve never (or have rarely) encountered situations where their looks have counted against them. So, in a way, looks don’t matter to them because it’s not something they ever have to think about - it comes naturally.
People want to be around good looking people - attractive types are people magnets in social situations. When a good looking person smiles at you or approaches you, you feel positive about yourself. When an ugly or awkward person approaches someone it’s a different story.
A ‘cute’ guy can do anything and still pull the ladies - no matter how ‘weird’ he acts. Girls will want him and his uniqueness only adds to the charm he exudes. Now imagine a 6ft3 skinny guy, with a nest of frizzy hair, big ears and nose, pale freckly skin, overbite and bad posture and who talks with a lisp who is trying to act weird and all girls will think when they see him is ‘please don’t talk to me, please don’t talk to me, please don’t talk to me, please don’t talk to me…’
A good example is when Gwyneth Paltrow put on a fat suit and walked around New York for three days. She said that by the beginning of the third day she was so depressed and so utterly despondant that she couldn’t get out of bed in the morning and spent most of the day sobbing uncontrollably. She was not used to being treated like that and it gave her a new perspective on how people really are.
And one of the guys I used to work for had a very beautiful sister who was a swimsuit model and who took part in a social experiment for the ABC where she was made to look ugly and go and work as a waitress in a trendy eatery. She was asked to try and chat to as many people as possible to try and gauge a reaction. And the reaction was that she was called a ‘cunt’, an ‘ugly bitch’ after she left the room, guys scoffed when she asked them about their evening or whether they were enjoying their meal. People ignored her when she tried to take their orders or came to collect the bill. She even overheard one guy asking another why a place like that would hire a girl like her.
Then on the next night, she took off the ‘ugly’ suit, dressed herself up and…yeah you can pretty much guess how it went from there.
Pretty humbling experiences, both of them.
Children are a good barometer for that kind of thing because they are not yet socially formed and have not adopted the ‘manners’ and social graces that adults put on to conduct themselves maturely. Children say the thing adults think but are too polite to say. And look at how kids treat the ugly members of the class - with utter contempt. Something ingrained deep inside their dna tells that it is unacceptable to mix with this ‘inferior’ speciman and to single out and ostracise them.
Which is kinda interesting.
