Girls are snobby and bitchy. I know plenty of guys in their mid 30s who still have never had a date.
I disagree, I know more girls who are awesome than are snobby and bitchy and my job (I teach yoga and work at the studio) means that I hang out with about 75% women all day long. Most any guy I know who is interesting or kind or handsome or engaged in people around them don’t have problems talking to women if they really want to.
[reply]Girls are snobby and bitchy. I know plenty of guys in their mid 30s who still have never had a date.
I disagree, I know more girls who are awesome than are snobby and bitchy and my job (I teach yoga and work at the studio) means that I hang out with about 75% women all day long. Most any guy I know who is interesting or kind or handsome or engaged in people around them don’t have big problems engaging with women if they really want to.[/reply]
Don’t mean to be rude here but you don’t live in a real setting…
You are a yoga teacher, which is very female oriented…those women come into your place in spandex and release bodily gasses and you don’t judge them which makes you (as a person) VERY safe. so of course they are gonna warm up to you and be nice. The casual male doesn’t have this luxury of time and setting with females the way you do… On top of that you being in yoga makes you “sensitive” which means they are again very receptive to you.
It was never meant as a boo hoo hoo woe is me thread.
It was more the result of a conversation I had with a friend over drinks and a game of pool.
Don’t worry Peligro you don’t have to Lie to hang out here, people already have their opinions of you. Being ugly and socially awkward doesn’t really matter here. [:)]
Mooney
If they got a date, would they know what to do?
A date versus a sexual contract are two entirely different things.
I’m glad you mentioned this because much of the stuff that you are writing is stuff that is Post date stuff (I.E. relationship stuff) while good to know, not very helpful in actually get a girl interested in you.
you try to start a conversation with some woman using the topics you’ve brought up and she’s gonna think “Desperate STALKER”
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grmpysmrf
Don’t worry Peligro you don’t have to Lie to hang out here, people already have their opinions of you. Being ugly and socially awkward doesn’t really matter here. [:)]
A friend and I were chatting about how bitchy and judgemental woman can be. For the most part I agreed with him and related my own experiences.
Lying?
I don’t come here to impress you Grmpy.
Our personalities are nothing but advertisements.
I wish to have little part in it.
I just keep to myself and do.
I like turtles.
You need to become a monk, Evil.
Or a serial killer.
How to get a date: find out what she likes and ask her to go with you.
I’m stating what traits women look for in men. Unless he’s on a speed date, a guy shouldn’t ask the difficult questions straight up on the first date. They are things to be learned over multiple dates. The best thing you can do is listen. Women talk way too much so you will have to sort through what she says. However, if you get married and haven’t discussed and agreed on the breeding factor prior to signing the paper - there are going to be issues. If you change your mind, she’s most likely to divorce your ass.
I don’t come here to impress you Grmpy.
You fucking bitch!! You ruined my life <runs away with face in hands>
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grmpysmrf
How to get a date: find out what she likes and ask her to go with you.
how do you do that on a cold call? (Ie a girl in a club or bar you wanna talk to?)
I’m stating what traits women look for in men. Unless he’s on a speed date, a guy shouldn’t ask the difficult questions straight up on the first date. They are things to be learned over multiple dates. The best thing you can do is listen. Women talk way too much so you will have to sort through what she says. However, if you get married and haven’t discussed and agreed on the breeding factor prior to signing the paper - there are going to be issues. If you change your mind, she’s most likely to divorce your ass.
I completely agree.
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grmpysmrf
Getting a girl interested in you is hard full stop - but it’s harder for some than for others.
It can also be crushing for your self esteem too - guys who get knock back after knock back really do it tough. High school was hard for me in that respect. And I’m not alone in feeling that way.
Yeah, looks are important - in terms of relationships or just plain getting laid. You can dance around it as much as you’d like but in the end it matters. Beautiful people have a head start on life (doesn’t guarantee them a happy, healthy existence though).
Scientists have even done studies that prove that even babies react more positively to good looking people. And adults will fawn over pretty children a lot more than ugly ones - without even realising their prejudice.
Think back to your school days. Remember the popular guy in class? Was he ever ugly? No.
But what are you gonna do? Just enjoy life for what it is. If you’re ugly or awkward find something unique that interests you and take it as far as you can. Look at Stephen Hawking. What a source of inspiration he has been. He has one of the most amazing minds the world has ever seen and yet under any other circumstances he’d be stuck hidden away in a nursing home.
If girls are rude to you - tell 'em to fuck off.
[reply]How to get a date: find out what she likes and ask her to go with you.
how do you do that on a cold call? (Ie a girl in a club or bar you wanna talk to?)[/reply]
Ask the bartender what she’s drinking, buy her a drink, and if she acknowledges your existence with eye contact, go over and talk to her. Or being more direct and using a little subtle humor: “Hey, I’m ____. Would you like another drink? I haven’t seen you in here before, but that’s OK. This is my first time in this bar.” If she lets out a little laugh, pursue it. If she says she doesn’t want another drink: “How about I buy myself one and pull up a chair. We can shoot the shit for a few; it doesn’t cost anything!” If not or she threatens with her boyfriend/hubby, “Hey, it was nice chatting with you. I’ll be out back on the patio.”
For Grmpy:
Man: Haven’t I seen you somewhere before?
Woman: Yes that’s why I don’t go there anymore.
Man: Really? I heard it was because everyone there calls you an fat ugly slut.
Man: Is this seat empty?
Woman: Yes, and this one will be if you sit down.
Man: There’s no need to get on your knees and suck me off just yet.
Man: Your place or mine?
Woman: Both. You go to yours, and I’ll go to mine.
Man: That’s cool, cause after I’m done doing you in the back of my car, I don’t give a shit where you go.
Man: How do you like your eggs in the morning?
Woman: Unfertilized.
Man: No problem, I’ll just shoot my load up your ass.
Man: You’re pretty
Woman: piss off.
Man: Don’t interrupt, You’re pretty… ugly, you stupid bitch.
Man: If I could see you naked, I’d die happy.
Woman: If I saw you naked, I’d probably die laughing.
Man: That works for me, as long as you are still a little warm when I shove it in your ass.
Yeah, looks are important - in terms of relationships or just plain getting laid. You can dance around it as much as you’d like but in the end it matters. Beautiful people have a head start on life (doesn’t guarantee them a happy, healthy existence though).
Absolutely…Perfectly written.
Scientists have even done studies that prove that even babies react more positively to good looking people. And adults will fawn over pretty children a lot more than ugly ones - without even realising their prejudice.
Correct! so far in that those that are prettier than the mother will give “mom” a run for her money for baby’s attention!
Also, saw, In sociology of Pop Culture class, where an experiment was run where they took and average looking lady made her frumpy looking and then she read a 2nd grade class a story.
Then they took an already pretty lady, made her Stunning and she read a story to the same 2nd grade class. She made a few mistakes while reading but finished the story…
Then they asked the students who was smarter. They all said the pretty one (even the girls) even though she stumbled on the story. and one bashful little boy even came right out and said “she’s smarter cause she’s pretty”
Look at Stephen Hawking. What a source of inspiration he has been. He has one of the most amazing minds the world has ever seen and yet under any other circumstances he’d be stuck hidden away in a nursing home.
Bad example! That guy is an alien doing what he was sent here to do! He’s all crippled up because our gravity is ravaging its effects on his poorly designed shell of a body… anybody else with his “disease” would’ve been dead 40 years ago! ALIEN I TELLS YA!
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grmpysmrf
If girls are rude to you - tell 'em to fuck off.[/reply]
[reply][reply]Girls are snobby and bitchy. I know plenty of guys in their mid 30s who still have never had a date.
I disagree, I know more girls who are awesome than are snobby and bitchy and my job (I teach yoga and work at the studio) means that I hang out with about 75% women all day long. Most any guy I know who is interesting or kind or handsome or engaged in people around them don’t have big problems engaging with women if they really want to.[/reply]
Don’t mean to be rude here but you don’t live in a real setting…
You are a yoga teacher, which is very female oriented…those women come into your place in spandex and release bodily gasses and you don’t judge them which makes you (as a person) VERY safe. so of course they are gonna warm up to you and be nice. The casual male doesn’t have this luxury of time and setting with females the way you do… On top of that you being in yoga makes you “sensitive” which means they are again very receptive to you.[/reply]
But I wasn’t always a yoga teacher, before that I worked at a law firm, before that Target, before that Bookstores, before that Record Stores (and college for accounting), before that Taco Bell and I’ve always pretty much had that opinion of girls.
In Junior High I was scared of girls but that went away. I’ve been married for a long so maybe that helps my “sensitive” factor, but also, just maybe, I treat women like people and tend to be nice to them, hence I see a better side of them than guys who treat them like tits and cunts on legs.
[reply][reply]How to get a date: find out what she likes and ask her to go with you.
how do you do that on a cold call? (Ie a girl in a club or bar you wanna talk to?)[/reply]
Ask the bartender what she’s drinking, buy her a drink, and if she acknowledges your existence with eye contact, go over and talk to her. Or being more direct and using a little subtle humor: “Hey, I’m ____. Would you like another drink? I haven’t seen you in here before, but that’s OK. This is my first time in this bar.” If she lets out a little laugh, pursue it. If she says she doesn’t want another drink: “How about I buy myself one and pull up a chair. We can shoot the shit for a few; it doesn’t cost anything!” If not or she threatens with her boyfriend/hubby, “Hey, it was nice chatting with you. I’ll be out back on the patio.”[/reply]
not bad I think that could actually help some dudes here! I think that’s what some need. a script sorta…
One gag I used to pull would be, I would “buy” girls a round of waters… If they would laugh, I knew they were cool and it was ok to go talk to them and probably safe to spend some cash on sending them a real drink, if they were bitches about the water, thank god I didn’t spend any $$ on those snobby bitches! Gives a whole new meaning to “testing the waters doesn’t it?”
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grmpysmrf
I’ve been married for a long so maybe that helps my “sensitive” factor, but also, just maybe, I treat women like people and tend to be nice to them, hence I see a better side of them than guys who treat them like tits and cunts on legs.
You do make a good point. I find now that I’m married I treat women (well people in general really) differently than I did when I was single(whether I was the nice guy or the ass)… I guess the difference is, is that I’m no longer horny or lonely or both.
Things are different now that I’m married But I lived that single life for a long time and while I’m glad to forget most of it I still can recall the pain of that shit.
I’m thinking you’re probably a decent looking chap… because all I ever got when I was “nice and friendly and cared about those woman’s opinions” was ignored, pittied or became their best friend so they could tell me all about the guy they want so bad!or a combination of all of those.
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grmpysmrf
Yeah, looks are important - in terms of relationships or just plain getting laid. You can dance around it as much as you’d like but in the end it matters. Beautiful people have a head start on life (doesn’t guarantee them a happy, healthy existence though).
Ugly guys still get laid. Most of them have money and/or game.
Ugly guys still get laid. Most of them have money and/or game.
ugh no! That’s the money getting laid! No different than them going to a prostitute… Although, I do like the fact that you acknowledged that there are some horrible gold diggers out there!
and what is “game” for an ugly dude? There is no game that Urkel or Screech (or insert any other ugly nerd) can play that will get them positive attention.
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grmpysmrf
This is a fun thread! Thanks Peligro.
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grmpysmrf
and what is “game” for an ugly dude? There is no game that Urkel or Screech (or insert any other ugly nerd) can play that will get them positive attention.
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grmpysmrf
Ugly people who can sell ice cubes to Eskimos.
im thinking, the longer the post’s the shorter the dick, you can type and whine all day…at the end of the day you still only got 5 inches.[tongue]
I may be a needledick, muhfuckah, but I move like a SEWING MACHINE.
Anyway…
I’ve never had a problem attracting women. Thing is, they fall in one of three categories:
I. 14-year-old girls with severe daddy issues,
II. Older women with kids and a husband/boyfriend/babydaddy with severe delusions about who’s using whom… and
III. Extremely gay men.
Finding a good one is kinda like fishing, you know? You just gotta kick back, relax, shut up, knock back a beer, and when you get a bite, SNAG 'ER and reel it in. The good ones are worth the wait, man.
Frank Zappa says it best:
“A girl dreams of kissing a boy on the lips. A lady expects a man to kiss her ass. A woman appreciates it when a man kisses her pussy.”
Zen words from a zen dude.
im thinking, the longer the post’s the shorter the dick, you can type and whine all day…at the end of the day you still only got 5 inches.
So your advice is essientially ‘talk softly and carry a big dick’?