Bud, i understand your position, and i realize that it’s not so wrong. however, despite Paul’s death, business must go on, and their business, i should hope, is to keep/add to a solid fan base and maintain a good relationship with those that pay good money for Ministry’s music and merchandise, and to see them live… and this isn’t doing anything to help. mooney138 put up a message saying that if we’re expecting an official statement that we’re not going to get one until everything’s over because it can’t. well, the fans are aware of what’s going on, so why can’t they respond to us with “We’re sorry, but this is something we don’t wish to/can’t talk about right now, we’ll give you more information when we are able to”? i will repeat myself. i don’t give a flying fuck who’s suing who for what. what does concern me is the ignoring thing, and the deletions of those threads that concerned the topic at hand. it started rather innocently, and the person that inquired first has decided that all was well and good in the deletion of his thread. find and dandy. second inquiry, well, he wasn’t so happy about the deletion. it would have bothered me, too (but i wouldn’t have asked about such a thing as a lawsuit, again, i don’t feel personally like it’s ANY of my business, but i will eventually want to know the details when the time is right)
i am a diehard fan of Al’s, and i have no grudge against the Mrs. she is clearly a part of Al’s life and Al’s business, and is definitely business minded when it comes to PR and such. however, there are forces greater than her in that camp. and i guarantee all of this was not of her doing directly. i totally understand why the deletions occurred after Paul’s death, but i am not happy about the first deletion without an explanation. i didn’t catch the first thread that was started, nor did i have any posts in it, but the original poster, he isn’t upset by it… so maybe it’s not for me to be upset, as it’s hearsay, and i have to consider that i didn’t see it. as for the rest of the threads, bad timing is the only thing that i can say will make me feel a little better about the deletions, but i’m still perturbed. and i’m still hoping that a message will be put up from the camp stating that this isn’t something that they can or will discuss right now, but perhaps be able to in the near future. that’s all they have to do to quiet those who are really bothered. nip unwelcome inquiries in the bud. AGAIN, the fans are the ones that pay their bills and put food on their table. i am disappointed that the fans are not being responded to when they ask about something such as this, just a simple statement would do… “we can’t talk about it, sorry”.
Mrs. Jay’s message to grmpysmrf was a bit over the top, but that’s to be expected when emotions go unchecked in times of grief. i’d be more supportive of his decision to post again and again on the topic if it had been a week from now… i would have been more than willing to uphold his persistence, despite the fact that i don’t give a shit about the lawsuit.