Gunnar is the Smartest.
And Rash is right.
which one is your wife? I’m assuming it’s not RASH, so it has to be the lady next to rash or the lady to your immediate left.
Late,
grmpysmrf
which one is your wife? I’m assuming it’s not RASH, so it has to be the lady next to rash or the lady to your immediate left.
Late,
grmpysmrf
She’s actually not in that photo (I’ll find one later). It’s just a bunch of cousins and nieces and nephews. That was taken on one of my solo trips. I only put that one up because it was immediately accessible and because it is a special and warm memory for me. I don’t typically put photos of my wife online because I’m uber-protective of her privacy and don’t like to inadvertantly expose her to my retarded online shenanigans. I’ll find one later, though.
I hope this helps,
Gunnar
You look like Stone Cold Steve Austin before he shaved his head.
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HAHA!!! Awesome. I’ve never heard that one before. The comparisons I get most often (depending on what clothes I’m wearing and my hair style) are Josh Homme (QOTSA), Kiefer Sutherland, and Conan O’Brien.
Definitely agree with you looking like the butt-baby of Homme and Sutherland.
Anyway, I love the cultural differences. Even before meeting my wife I’d decided long ago that I didn’t too much care for white girls. They bored me and they looked too much like me (I don’t want to be having a romantic evening with someone that looks like my sister). Over time I came to really love meeting people from diverse cultures and backgrounds.
Agreed. Which is why I’m dating a born again Orthodox Christian (the type that fasts during Easter) for the second time. This is going to be a hoot. The last time I was with her, I told her I was a Satanist. This time, I’ll be telling the truth when I offended nearly every Christian in the state and defiled their holy day of worship!
I was lucky that her family was not hard core old-school and were very accepting of me from the get go, but I’m also always on the top of my game and take care to conduct myself properly and treat others with reverence.
This is interesting. You got lucky. I remember reading an interview with Trey Parker and he was describing the efforts he had to go through to convince his Japanese father-in-law that an American lad like himself could provide for his Japanese daughter. Suffice to say, the dad’s still unimpressed with what he has to offer, even after he bought him a house. Probably one of the ones still butt hurt about WW2. Proof of intolerance on both sides.
I’m pretty hard core in my views on marriage and I’m not saying this to preach to anyone, but just to share how things have worked for me . . . when I got married I’d already come to the decision that I would only ask her to be my wife if I was willing to walk away from everything else in this world. If there wasn’t anything else that would take priority over her or be a deal-breaker for me, then I’d be ready, and I reached that point in 2000. I’ll be completely honest with your guys . . . . if I hadn’t already resolved that in my mind and heart, we’d probably be divorced now, because there are times that come that just seem like the end of the world and sometimes I want to punch a hole in the earth, but I suck it up or let it go because I think the greater reward of having her as mine is totally worth it.
This is spot on. Well and truly, it is. I don’t think there’s really any other way to look at marriage. Hence, why I doubt I ever would. Though, I’d feel that way about a child of my own. And I’d love to have a kid. I just can’t quite get my head around putting that level of sacrifice into someone who’s walked into my life.
As for the racism, there’s enough of that in my family to be annoying. It’s not the overt, “Who brought the gook?” type of racism but rather more insidious and underlying (I’d rather they were open about it). My sister is the worst offender and can be just downright evil. And my Mom is more ignorant than evil, but she can really drop a turd in the punchbowl as well.
It’s interesting. I say a lot of racist jokes and comments amongst friends (Jewish, Asian, Italian, black, etc), but you’ve gotta know your audience. Some of them won’t have a bar of it. Some of them are just as bad, if not worse. Some of them will laugh, but you can tell it’s not for them, so you don’t do it.
Same applies with my family. But, there’s a couple who are well and truly bigoted, and are pretty ignorant to boot. And, I find it rubs off on other family members. 'Tis a pity acceptance doesn’t seem to be quite as contagious.
that (at least presently) includes even my own mother.
This is often the case and is just the way things should be. I honestly can’t say I care about how my mother feels about who I am with and am better for it. Feeling otherwise just ruins the relationship with yer woman.
[reply]I haven’t dated a white chick in ages - not since I was 19.
Then my 20’s came along. A decade spent chasing white chicks around and getting nothing in return. And by nothing I mean NOTHING. Could not get a date - girls I was interested in turned out to be complete BITCHES and were either incredibly rude to me or never spoke to me again when I plucked up the courage to ask them out.
I spent that entire decade completely dateless. Got overweight, self concious, low self esteem, stopped going out. I would walk down the street thinking that everyone was pointing at me and secretly snickering at me behind my back. A real low point in my life. That was my 20’s. Pretty much dateless, while all around me my friends were all getting laid.
Then, at 30, I hit the gym (big time), spent money on clothes and grooming products - even used to get waxed - and started on a different approach. Started approaching girls of ethnic minorities and found them to be much more welcoming to my advances. Turned my life around big time. Even girls who had once laughed at me when I was 25, now started showing an interest. Best decision I ever made. Dated girls I never dreamed I could date when I was a 25 year old bedroom dweller. I began to love the ‘exotic’ and searched high and low for new ethnicities to embrace.
I dated an Indian / Malaysian girl (great body, zip personality tho’’), a Japanese girl (well…not exactly date, but we screwed around quite a bit), a Vietnamese girl and had a serious relationship with an Hispanic Amercian, who I was quite prepared to go all the way with and marry. Unfortunately, it didn’t work out.
I would say the Japanese girl was the greatest. Sadly, this looks to be going nowhere. Don’t know what went wrong - but deep down I feel that she was merely after a “good time” and nothing else. Which is a shame because…whoah boy, that girl could turn heads.
Single again, but am now looking (seriously) and have even signed up to some site where “white guys” can arrange to meet up with Asian girls and date them. No luck there yet tho’.
So good luck with yr marriage. Yr wife is really pretty. Yr a lucky boy.
So good luck with yr marriage. Yr wife is really pretty. Yr a lucky boy.
Thank you, Sir.
Mrs. Gunnar is kinda hawt. Success.
OWNED!
Gorgeous wife btw gunnar. I’m jelly.
is that really Your wife? why would a girl degradate herself and be with such an arrogant asshole anyway?
is that really Your wife? why would a girl degradate herself and be with such an arrogant asshole anyway?
I think that’s offsides dude! Gunnars sometimes inapprpriate. But that’s way out of line,especially since this is like your second post.
Not only that but he was reluctant to post her pic because of shit like this. Be cool!
You probably won’t last here if you keep this up.
Stick around. we need some new peeps here. Start off with something winnable and easy… I’m sure you’ve seen voids posts, yea? Start there.
Late,
grmpysmrf
why would a girl degradate herself?
I would also like to know why a girl would degradate herself.
revoltingspock, to watch you degradate yourself, even from a distance, was both a pleasure and a privilege.
Gunnar, what’s the difference between a 9 volt battery and a girl’s arsehole?
Gunnar, what’s the difference between a 9 volt battery and a girl’s arsehole?
They are two totally different energy sources. One is a source of electricity and the other is a source of gas.
I hope this helps,
Gunnar
is that really Your wife? why would a girl degradate herself and be with such an arrogant asshole anyway?
Yes, it’s really my wife. I’d like to answer your other question, but I have no idea what you’re trying to say. I think I’ll ask Gerda to throw a dictionary at you first, before you come back with another attempt at writing something vaguely resembling the English language.
I hope this helps,
Gunnar
Hentai fuckin’ rules.
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i hadn’t seen this before, but i must +1 this.
is that really Your wife? why would a girl degradate herself and be with such an arrogant asshole anyway?
I think we have a new troll on here.
I think we have a new troll on here.
Grumpy probably invented him/her so he could have someone to validate him.