I guess I’m telling you all this to say that, even a rational, intelligent person with all the support structure you can imagine can still be a victim to a bad wiring in the brain or an overactive hormonal gland here and there.
This is the crux of it. We talked to her GP (doctor) and he had nothing to show or indicate that she was abnormal in any way. She was going through menopause and was on HRT (hormone replacement stuff) which can alter moods, but nothing severe of acute. In 2009 she had an accident with her leg and developed a deep vein thrombosis (nearly died) but recovered well. However she did have a lingering lawsuit over the issue that was fucked up largely by her incompetent lawyer.
There’s not going to be one single aspect that answers it all. I see it most likely as a concoction of factors that made her miserable and her ability to deal with it was too weakened, her resilience worn out.
I realize I’m a rather new member on the board. However, my life experiences are not; including death. I have experienced my fair share and heard too and as I see it? The closer you are to the individual who lost their life the more difficult the grief. This isn’t to say we should isolate ourselves as a species. Rather, we should be there for one another. And I offer my deepest condolences to you all who lost someone you knew.
This being said. If someone needs a shoulder to lean on? I’m here for you. Just I ask you do it in private. I carry no judgements.
Zick, but you’ve always seemed like a straight-up, caring, and honest dude on this board and I’m quite certain that there was neither anything you and your pop did to cause this nor could you have done anything to stop this.
absolutely, what pretty much cements this is the fact that zick has a much better handle on this than some of us, and we didn’t even know his mom. It seems like some of us are a mess for him while he stays cool rational and calm.
You seem like you got a good handle on this zick, I appreciate you sharing this with the board, if any more developments should arise that would be cool if you could let us know. But I’m gonna go ahead and stop posting on it cause I’m not really sure how cool you are with still posting on it, and I certainly don’t want to push the issue into the realm, as Gunnar said, of playing clue.
You’re a fuckin rock dude, god bless you man.
Late,
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