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You’re mom talks to you about going to male strip joints?
that has got to be awkward as Hell. Did she ever hook up with one of 'em? maybe she could answer my additional questions.
It can’t be that much more of a stretch to ask if she’s already discussing the male revues with you?
No this was later on in my life, night with the girls and all that. She would never purposely go out of her way to go to those herself, she’s timid. I just overheard it, she would never tell me about it.[/reply]
I kinda figured… just thought I’d kinda kid ya about it.
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grmpysmrf
Having known a few female strippers and even dating one I can tell you that strippers aren’t selected just for the size of their sexual organs. Their body type is not all that different from a fitness trainer and they have to maintain their body type constantly. I would imagine the same thing would apply to male strippers.
Having known a few female strippers and even dating one I can tell you that strippers aren’t selected just for the size of their sexual organs. Their body type is not all that different from a fitness trainer and they have to maintain their body type constantly. I would imagine the same thing would apply to male strippers.
Yes, true, but that’s not what Grumpy asked. He wants to know one thing. Are they always swingin’ in the breeze or do they sometimes point the way to the moon?
[reply]Having known a few female strippers and even dating one I can tell you that strippers aren’t selected just for the size of their sexual organs. Their body type is not all that different from a fitness trainer and they have to maintain their body type constantly. I would imagine the same thing would apply to male strippers.
Yes, true, but that’s not what Grumpy asked. He wants to know one thing. Are they always swingin’ in the breeze or do they sometimes point the way to the moon?[/reply]
yes.
Late,
grmpysmrf
they had one male stripper to make it sort of fair but most of the guys turned around on the benches and looked to the back of the tent until he was finished.
This is the kind of behavior/mentality I was referring to earlier in the this thread, not necessarily specific posters.
I believe this kind of behavior is the result of social conditioning, that males will feel that they have to publicly display disgust at the body of another nude male.
Are they truly revolted? Or do they just have to maintain that facade so as not appear curious/interested?
Straight or gay regardless, if you are truly revolted by the sight of a naked male in good physical condition, I feel that is childish. Do you cower from Greek statues as well? Do you hide you eyes in the locker room?
I feel that this kind of behavior is mainly an American phenomenon, resulting indirectly from the Puritan roots of the country.
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Having known a few female strippers and even dating one I can tell you that strippers aren’t selected just for the size of their sexual organs. Their body type is not all that different from a fitness trainer and they have to maintain their body type constantly. I would imagine the same thing would apply to male strippers.
Yes, true, but that’s not what Grumpy asked. He wants to know one thing. Are they always swingin’ in the breeze or do they sometimes point the way to the moon?[/reply]
yes.
Late,
grmpysmrf[/reply]
Solution would just for you to gmpysmrf to go to a gay strip joint with your wife. Than she gets to go with a lesbian strip joint. Make it a kinky night out. Than report back your findings. Maybe if were lucky you’ll find at the end of the rainbow your girl unicorn or boy unicorn.
[reply]they had one male stripper to make it sort of fair but most of the guys turned around on the benches and looked to the back of the tent until he was finished.
This is the kind of behavior/mentality I was referring to earlier in the this thread, not necessarily specific posters.
I believe this kind of behavior is the result of social conditioning, that males will feel that they have to publicly display disgust at the body of another nude male.
Are they truly revolted? Or do they just have to maintain that facade so as not appear curious/interested?
Straight or gay regardless, if you are truly revolted by the sight of a naked male in good physical condition, I feel that is childish. Do you cower from Greek statues as well? Do you hide you eyes in the locker room?
I feel that this kind of behavior is mainly an American phenomenon, resulting indirectly from the Puritan roots of the country.[/reply]
I’d say this was a pretty accurate assessment.
American culture dictates that unless you’re terrified of every other cock but your own, then you’re gay.
I find if I happen to see a wang it’s no different than looking at a vagina that looks more like a wound than a beautiful pink vision of lovliness. I can see genitals male or female without wanting/needing to insert them somewhere in my body or need to insert some part of my body in them.
Not that I’d need to, but I could probably watch a naked dude dance around and find something to appreciate on him with out it being gay. The dude would have to be attractive in the first place though… like it couldn’t be just some voidhead look alike. (I’d probably full on walk out on that!) but those “thunder from down under” or chippendales dudes, you know the types of people that professionally attractive people…I could probably sit through a show of those dudes if I had too without feeling the need to turn my back.
I suppose it comes down to being secure in your own sexuality. Some people don’t understand that and feel they have to prove to others that they’re not “the gay”
Late,
grmpysmrf
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Having known a few female strippers and even dating one I can tell you that strippers aren’t selected just for the size of their sexual organs. Their body type is not all that different from a fitness trainer and they have to maintain their body type constantly. I would imagine the same thing would apply to male strippers.
Yes, true, but that’s not what Grumpy asked. He wants to know one thing. Are they always swingin’ in the breeze or do they sometimes point the way to the moon?[/reply]
yes.
Late,
grmpysmrf[/reply]
Solution would just for you to gmpysmrf to go to a gay strip joint with your wife. Than she gets to go with a lesbian strip joint. Make it a kinky night out. Than report back your findings. Maybe if were lucky you’ll find at the end of the rainbow your girl unicorn or boy unicorn.
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LOL. I know we don’t have any male strip joints around where I live. But I’d be alright to do that should the opportunity present itself.
The wife and I went on a double date with my buddy a week before he died a few years back and his wife. That was pretty cool watching our wives respond and interact with the cutie strippers on stage. both our wives got felt up multiple times. I think everyone just likes big boobs ‘cause the strippers couldn’t keep their hands off our wives’ racks.
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grmpysmrf
Big difference between seeing a naked man and sitting there watching some guy thrust his package in your face. If that is your idea of fun then watch it. But, don’t expect most straight males to want to see it. It’s called being straight.
Was he really thrusting his dick in your face? This was inside a large tent, correct? How close were you to the stage?
I dunno I’m not straight so I wouldn’t know, but out of my straight friends, the ones who are less uptight, and more secure with their sexuality, would watch and have a laugh.
And the more uptight ones would turn away in disgust, (or maybe because something about it — the size of the guy’s wang in comparison to their own, the guy’s body in comparison to their own, the social implications of them watching while the other men turn away — embarrasses them) that’s all I’m saying.
It’s really not such a big deal and if you can’t see how turning away is kind of square, I’m not here to bother to convince you of that.
I’m glad grmpy gets what I’m saying here and maybe others do as well.
I’m glad grmpy gets what I’m saying here and maybe others do as well.
Well I see what DJ carmangary is saying to. No matter how attractive the dude is I don’t want him shoving his cock in my face and I certainly don’t want him touching me. But then again I think that has to do more with actual sexual attraction.
While I understand they’re attractive and nice to look at and wish I had 1% body fat like them, I’m not sexually attracted to them so I don’t want them touching me.
Same as me not wanting the 300lb woman with 4 teeth in her mouth at the Tijuana whore house touching me doesn’t make me gay, but that didn’t stop her from sitting/crushing my thighs as she sat on them and rubbing on my dick through my pants. I had have friends pull her off my and tell her in Spanish I wasn’t interested. Nasty beast!!
but as far as watching some stripper dude dance around wang in hand… I don’t feel threatened seeing something like that.
Late,
grmpysmrf
iirc void and I went to a gay club a while ago and besides the fact that, it was like Sodom and Gomorrah with clothes on to me (pretty closed psychologically to a degree), it was a pretty non threatening atmosphere.
and i saw the most beautiful women i’ve ever seen in my life there.
do they leave the stage if they get a hard on? what is the average length of their flaccid member?
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I have never seen one run and hide during a performance (and the performances and venues have varied). I would say the average length flaccid is the length of the average erection.
BTW Not all are on stage. Some will leave the stage and step up on the rungs of the bar chairs to get their junk close to the face of the woman and then gyrate (reverse lap dance so to say).
One of my best female friends dated a male stripper. His look was more like an underwear model vs. a body builder (sculpted vs. bulked).
[reply]I went nude on a nude beach in Germany several years ago.
I was surprised at how much “bigger” I was than most other guys. And I mean considerably “bigger”.
Interesting.
Yeah, me too. I’ve had that exact same experience.
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grmpysmrf[/reply]
The one time I went to a nude beach all it was was old dudes. The one chick I did see had serious bush and wasn’t all that attractive. I guess the lesson learned there is don’t go to a nude beach looking for chicks.
