Never really went away. Just busy over the last six months with personal matters.
Yeah I’m more or less ready to join in the fun and excitement again.
Well it’s good to see you’re alive.
Late,
grmpysmrf
Never really went away. Just busy over the last six months with personal matters.
Yeah I’m more or less ready to join in the fun and excrement again.
fixed
Well…we’ve “officially” broken up.
How’s that? It took 5 months to finally realise we were no good for each other and turn our backs.
She has officially started her new life and no longer wants anything to do with me. I have sent her the papers detailing the finer points of the separation (ie the finances - ie “give me back the money that I poured into the house you now occupy with your family who you flew over from China as soon as I was out the door - if not I will be taking legal steps to have the house sold by the courts so I can claim what is rightfully mine”)
<sighs>
Right. I’m going to go to a brothel and have sex. Filthy, disgusting hardcore sex with a complete stranger. And I’ll feel much better for it…!!!
[:)]
Well…we’ve “officially” broken up.
How’s that? It took 5 months to finally realise we were no good for each other and turn our backs.
She has officially started her new life and no longer wants anything to do with me. I have sent her the papers detailing the finer points of the separation (ie the finances - ie “give me back the money that I poured into the house you now occupy with your family who you flew over from China as soon as I was out the door - if not I will be taking legal steps to have the house sold by the courts so I can claim what is rightfully mine”)
<sighs>
Right. I’m going to go to a brothel and have sex. Filthy, disgusting hardcore sex with a complete stranger. And I’ll feel much better for it…!!!
[:)]
I thought this was already official, seeing as how you were moving furniture out and what not? Were you trying to patch things up? Do you feel like telling us what brought on the complete "give me my money back bitch"separation? you think you can win that lawsuit since you know she’s gonna claim that you gifted her the cash?
Late,
grmpysmrf
He most likely had more red tape in dealing with the housing aspect of it than anything. Australian law probably isn’t as different than here, when it comes to tenancy rights. Takes a long time. Material possessions are nothing to me, in the end if I don’t have a home it’s the only thing I focus on…
Well…we’ve “officially” broken up.
How’s that? It took 5 months to finally realise we were no good for each other and turn our backs.
She has officially started her new life and no longer wants anything to do with me. I have sent her the papers detailing the finer points of the separation (ie the finances - ie “give me back the money that I poured into the house you now occupy with your family who you flew over from China as soon as I was out the door - if not I will be taking legal steps to have the house sold by the courts so I can claim what is rightfully mine”)
<sighs>
Right. I’m going to go to a brothel and have sex. Filthy, disgusting hardcore sex with a complete stranger. And I’ll feel much better for it…!!!
[:)]
Go out and start slinging dick now, yo! Like a fucking doctor!
You do realise if we catch up and you told me your back together with her that I will repeatedly punch you in the face until you come to your senses?
A few months ago I announced to this board that I was finally - at the ripe old age of 39 - getting engaged and was to be married this April.
It is now however, with much regret, that I must inform you all that the engagement is cancelled and the wedding, a mere seven weeks away (with Evil Dildo as best man I kid you not!) is permanently off.
I just read that for the first time. My condolences. And I mean that sincerely - not just some brush off. I went through a living hell last year with a nasty divorce. Very harsh time for all involved. And we have kids, which makes it ten times worse. A house is easy to walk away from. A marriage? Not so easy. My ex and I spent the last year of our “marriage” (boy, does that word make me cringe now) living in the house as complete strangers. We would sleep in separate rooms, eat in different rooms, even watch tv separately. Anytime I would walk past her in the hallway she would either snarl at me or look the other way.
I lost my job because I couldn’t concentrate, I couldn’t sleep, I lost weight, my hair started to grey, I drank…horrible. The kids just didn’t know what to think. All they knew was mummy and daddy “don’t like each other”.
She got full custody. I have a prior conviction and admitted drinking and having a brief affair. Had to look my kids in the eye in a booth at the courthouse and say goodbye to them - for ever. Gut wrenching.
Sounds like you did the right thing. Any doubts going into a marriage - DON’T do it. Turn around and walk away. Trust me, it will be the best decision you ever make. Fuck marriage. It’s not for everyone. Never feel that you need to tie the knot just cos everyone else does.
Big mistake there.
Dude, sorry to hear your tribulations, Ambulance. [Hugs or slap on the ass or whatever it is straight guys are supposed to do when we awkwardly try to be sympathetic . . .] I’ll buy ya a beer. Anyway . . . stay gold, Pony Boy.
gotdaaamn, Ambulance. Shit got real.
These horror stories are partly why I don’t want to get married and the very thought makes me feel like I’m trapped inside of a concrete tomb. I don’t care if other people marry and I’m not taking some lame stand or some shit. It’s just… not a risk I wanna take and not for me.
[reply]A few months ago I announced to this board that I was finally - at the ripe old age of 39 - getting engaged and was to be married this April.
It is now however, with much regret, that I must inform you all that the engagement is cancelled and the wedding, a mere seven weeks away (with Evil Dildo as best man I kid you not!) is permanently off.
I just read that for the first time. My condolences. And I mean that sincerely - not just some brush off. I went through a living hell last year with a nasty divorce. Very harsh time for all involved. And we have kids, which makes it ten times worse. A house is easy to walk away from. A marriage? Not so easy. My ex and I spent the last year of our “marriage” (boy, does that word make me cringe now) living in the house as complete strangers. We would sleep in separate rooms, eat in different rooms, even watch tv separately. Anytime I would walk past her in the hallway she would either snarl at me or look the other way.
I lost my job because I couldn’t concentrate, I couldn’t sleep, I lost weight, my hair started to grey, I drank…horrible. The kids just didn’t know what to think. All they knew was mummy and daddy “don’t like each other”.
She got full custody. I have a prior conviction and admitted drinking and having a brief affair. Had to look my kids in the eye in a booth at the courthouse and say goodbye to them - for ever. Gut wrenching.
Sounds like you did the right thing. Any doubts going into a marriage - DON’T do it. Turn around and walk away. Trust me, it will be the best decision you ever make. Fuck marriage. It’s not for everyone. Never feel that you need to tie the knot just cos everyone else does.
Big mistake there.[/reply]
This is fucked. [:(]
Yeah. It was fucked. Hopefully the two of us will never cross paths again. So much for 10 years of marriage. All for what? To end up poorer but wiser?
You wanna hang out and shoot stuff?
Well…we’ve “officially” broken up.
How’s that? It took 5 months to finally realise we were no good for each other and turn our backs.
She has officially started her new life and no longer wants anything to do with me. I have sent her the papers detailing the finer points of the separation (ie the finances - ie “give me back the money that I poured into the house you now occupy with your family who you flew over from China as soon as I was out the door - if not I will be taking legal steps to have the house sold by the courts so I can claim what is rightfully mine”)
[:)]
Thanks for answering the question no one asked.